Public Spaces Need More Courtesy, Not More Rules
A recent social media thread debating who can or cannot use lifts sparked a wave of opinions — some practical, others defensive — and revealed much about our attitudes toward public courtesy. The question was simple: are lifts meant only for strollers, wheelchairs, and the elderly, or can the physically healthy use them too? The truth is straightforward — lifts are for everyone. But not everyone needs them equally. That’s where courtesy, or the lack of it, defines who we are as a society. We’ve all seen it before. The lift doors open, and a crowd rushes in before allowing others to step out. Young, able-bodied people push past parents with prams, senior citizens, or those with mobility aids — all because everyone’s in a hurry. There’s no rule forbidding the healthy from using lifts, but there’s an unspoken one about empathy and patience. Sadly, that’s the one we’ve forgotten. Choosing the stairs or escalator when we can isn’t a sacrifice — it’s a small act of consideration. ...